347: Don’t Give Up !


Video credit:  Reddit

What a year !  One thing I have learned is to not give up, especially when things become difficult, looking hopeless and seems to have no end.  Do you remember the weeks of emotional stress, the €800+  payment that Natascha and I had to endure to verify three bits of paper and that I was free to get married ?  We didn’t give up and got married.  Immediately after, were weeks without bank statements being sent to me, resulting in my trying to close my bank account in Spain.  Complaints to their head office did the trick and the account was eventually closed.  I didn’t give up. THEN I went through the headache of cashing in an old pension plan. They sent a UK cheque to me in Austria which took six weeks to be credited into my Austrian bank account.  Yay, at last ! 

All unnecessary bureaucrazy, but we never gave up.  I think the garbage truck above did give up, don’t you ?

I have read many of your posts, problems with all sorts of things, from medical issues to publishing books and most of you don’t give up.  Some do.  Giving up is the easy way out and can become a habit.  From then on you become a victim of your own weakness.  Stay strong and write in your blog about it.  Your readers love real life stories and their comments can really give you a boost when you need it most. You have helped us get through, helped us not to give up. Thank you my friends.

~Murli Never Gives Up~

Video credit:  Natascha’s post

~My Sweet Sonic & Samantha~

I wonder what my two loveable pussy-cats are doing ?

I heard that !!!!

Have You Ever Given Up ?

Okay, I know !  Reading my posts !

Ralph xox ❤

Cat photographs and cat video taken by Natascha

47 Comments on “347: Don’t Give Up !

    • I agree with you Glen. The grabber on the truck seemed to have human qualities. Emotional confusion at the beginning and finished off by saying, “Sod it !” and dumped the bin into the truck. Brilliant !
      Take care. Ralph 🙂

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      • Hi Ralph,

        I picked up a new word the other day – ‘anthropomorphic’. It means the attribution of human traits, emotions or qualities to non-human entities.

        I reckon that garbage truck is 100% ANTHROPOMORPHIC!!

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      • An excellent word Glen, but I haven’t enough keys on my keyboard to write it or enough brain cells in my head to remember it 😉 🙂

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    • We moved from Canada to Australia in 1966. Our trip was by boat (3 weeks, we couldn’t afford airfare)> In San Francisco, we stopped to take on more passengers, and I’ve never forgotten the sight of an elderly Russian man coming up the gangplank, bottle of vodka tucked under his arm, shaking his head and muttering “Bureau-crazy, bureau-crazy.” It has become a family catch-cry.

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      • I’m glad you made it to Australia Yvonne. Loved the story of the Russian ! I expect he slept during the whole voyage. Hugs. Ralph xox ❤


    • That is really kind of you to say Lynette. Natascha will be very happy when she reads your comment. Big hug. Ralph xox ❤

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  1. How can we ever give up on your posts Ralph, they are sunshine in the midst of chaos. Yes, I remember all the bureacrazy:) , personally I believe it is there to test the strong from the weak. Who survives. Resilience, patience and humour. Yep, that is what it is. 😊.

    As to those cats of yours, what would you and Natasha do without their wisdom?

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    • That is really lovely that you are never going to give me up dear Miriam. Cue for a song, eh ?

      Thank you so much for your wise words my friend and turning my cats into gurus.
      Have a lovely weekend. Ralph xox ❤

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  2. i always remember that things will work out somehow, just not how i ever imagined them though, which is the fun part of the ride –

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    • Precisely dear Beth ! It’s like being on a ghost train, never knowing what is going to happen next and scare you silly.
      Hugs. Ralph xox ❤

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  3. That was a touching acknowledgement to your readers who cheered you on, Ralph. It’s true, sometimes other people’s victories provide just enough inspiration to motivate someone else to succeed. That’s one thing I like about blogging. Have a great weekend, Ralph!

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    • I agree with you totally Des. People do need inspiration, I know I do. Thank you and have a great weekend yourself my friend. Ralph 🙂

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    • Persistent is the right word YC (my voice/typing app just threw my reply to you into spam. So I had to edit it. Oh boy !). Ralph 🙂

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  4. Hilarious, Ralph. Those naughty cats talking behind your back should be in “time-out” for a while!

    Glad your readers were able to provide some morale boost to your frustrating year. For cat lovers, how ironic that you and Natascha get the Doggedness of the Year award!

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    • Thank you for your great comment Al ! I can never win with my cats and I am sure that there is more to come in future posts, oh dear !
      Yay, we have finally won something, not the Euro Millions, but your award will do my friend. Ralph 🙂


    • Like a heart shaped helium balloon dear Annette ! Come back and stop playing around. lol. 🎈
      Big hug. Ralph xox ❤

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  5. Fun post. I especially liked the words of wisdom from your cats. Boy, do they have your number! I’m glad you didn’t give up. Everything you pushed for was worth it. Have a great weekend, Ralph, Natascha, and cats!


  6. Yes, never give up!!! 😜Of course giving down is whole other thing. 🙃However, I’m not quite sure what that is. I suppose giving around would be like,,,you’re charitable. 🧐Giving in is a questionable move, but not as final as giving up. What about giving out?🍷🍷 From too too much work or wine.. like you’re tired, or would it be more like giving out Hallow’een candies at the door? 🎭🐝I’m going to be a bee this year!
    An evocative post, for sure, dear Ralph!🤓 Love to all, Resa xoxoxoxoxoxo

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  7. Writing is a savior for many my friend. I know it kept me sane for years. It’s a medium to express our thoughts instead of keeping them bottled up. Venting by pen or keyboard. 🙂 ❤

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  8. Yay for marriage and forever Love! 💗
    Yay for bureacacy being Overcome!
    So happy the cats accept and love their Mummy! How could they not love Natascha? 🤗
    Thank you for your message and supportive Likes, Ralph. My grandson is going to be 13 and is battling Ewing’s Sarcoma, a form of cancer which has created 3 small masses and one rather big one which has pressed on his spine and behind his ear (3×4×5 cm) He has begun chemo treatments and yes, I have Faith for him! 🙏 🌟 🌈 Thank you for sharing your love with us, R + N! 💏


  9. As long as I keep the faith I won’t give up. I don’t think I ever gave up completely but if I did it was when I was really young and I don’t remember it.


  10. This post came at just the right time. I’d read a letter from a publisher who had my novel and they rejected it, so when I read your post it was just what I needed. Thank you and love to all the cats, and your lovely lady. xxx


  11. Thanks for the dose of inspiration, Ralph!!! I needed it. So happy you are settling in and persevered, even when it was painfully challenging. Anything worth having, is worth the fight though, right? :)​


  12. You are right, Ralph, never give up! What is a life without perseverance and persistence? You are so brave and enduring so much, you are a good example, my friend.


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