Evening Meal

Evening meal

I am really dangerous in the kitchen. The only thing that I can do safely is the washing up. Preparation for cooking requires a lot of cutting with sharp knives. My hands shake so much that I found the best way to cut an onion is to throw it in the air and like a Three Musketeer the onion is cut, dicedΒ  and grated before it lands in a neat pile on the plate.

So with much thought and due to starvation, I have employed a young lady, Toni, to cook a main meal for me every day. The best thing I have ever done. She is a real find, a treasure to keep and a pleasure to know. She has cooked for me for a week now. Every meal has been different, well cooked and wholesome. Thank you Toni. Ralph x

54 Comments on “Evening Meal

  1. Awwh, that’s great to know Ralph! Great meals everyday now, huh? πŸ˜‰ Toni FTW!


  2. Why thank you Sarin. She is the mother of two children, her husband is unemployed as most young men here are. She is away most days working in a store and now is working for me as well. I have great admiration for her. Take care. Ralph x


  3. Hey it is good to find a man who can and will do the washing up! You know I am rubbish in the kitchen due to other reasons though! πŸ™‚ This meal looks great, you made a good desicion ! Toni is a gem! Enjoy your meal! Ute xx


    • I enjoy washing up and ironing Ute. Your efforts at cooking really made me smile on your blog. Toni is a gem.. Thank you. Hugs. Ralph x


    • Thank you Denise. I took a chance with her and it seemed to be paying off. Take care. Ralph x


    • Thank you Len. The meals have all been very good and she is cooking me what her family eats, nothing specially English. Love Ralph x


      • That is great it looked as though you were getting local fish so that is even better! Enjoy my friend and thank you for chatting with me I enjoy your comments so much. God bless~!


      • Thank you so much Len, and I enjoy reading and answering your comments. Ralph x


  4. Well done to you, Ralph; everyone should have a Toni!!!
    I just realised; I’m a Toni….!
    I don’t want a Toni; however if I were a man and could have a Toni; I would…!
    Bon AppΓ©tit, Ralph… You are a very lucky man, and you deserve a Toni…! πŸ˜‰


  5. You probably taught Toni, Carolyn. Thank you for your lovely comment. Hugs, Ralph x


  6. That’s great Ralph. If not for my chef (hubby) – I’d be living off of take-out & microwaveable meals. You know – I went up in flames once in the kitchen – no joke. Glad you were able to find someone to cook your main meal for you. That looks YUMMY!


    • Hi dear RoSy, it looks like you and Ute ought to compare notes and write a burning, best seller, cookbook. I was told by Dr Gonzalez, my 35 year old Spanish consultant, whom I fell in love with for 30 seconds as she ripped open my shirt, that I must eat more, through Debbie my interpreter. I asked the doctor through my interpreter if she would come and cook for me. “I CAN’T SAY THAT !!”, panicked Debbie. “Go on” I said. So she told the doctor what I said and the doctor laughed reducing the doctor/patient relationship to a group of friends laughing and enjoying the rest of the tests. Thank you for your lovely comment RoSy. Hugs Ralph x


    • Danke Wolfgang. Ich habe gerade Ihre Blog, den ich sehr genossen besucht. Have a great weekend. Ralph


  7. Every man should have a Toni. My husband got a LuAnn instead but lucky for him she loves to cook. πŸ™‚


    • Wow. Three specials. Luann, Carolyn and Toni. All great treasures to thank. Ralph x


  8. Dear Ralph,
    When I am not sitting on my glasses, I can see pretty well , and cook even better! I have two sites on wordpress that involve menu/meal planning and cooking–even college students can do it! Lots of it is cheap and nutrient dense–oh and YUMMY! I’ll link you up after first things first, if you wish?!


    • Hello Elisa. I wish I could cook. I used to be able to, but now I am a Ninja Chef. Highly dangerous and deadly in the kitchen πŸ˜‰ So your links would be no benefit to me, but thank you for your kind offer. Love Ralph x


      • Wooo hooo!!! Found nasty frames that old lenses fit into! No more half a quart of garlic on the walls and ceiling now, though I could hurl things and you could swipe with ninja knife skills!


  9. You like to iron too?!! You can use an iron to make a grilled cheese.
    Enjoy your lovely meals. 8)


    • Brilliant Katie. You are always thinking outside of the box. I could steam vegetables or fill the reservoir in the iron with wine and as soon as it steams pour it out for a nice hot wine drink πŸ˜€


    • It was very….now this is a technical word…..yummy !! πŸ˜‰ Ralph x


  10. Let me say that sounds like money well spent! So very happy for you, Ralph – ENJOY every morsel!


    • Thank you so much Tina. Every morsel has been enjoyed. Hugs. Ralph x


    • Yes, sea bream, a bit bony but very tasty and it lasted for two meals as there was so much πŸ˜€ Ralph


  11. I’m happy that you have someone who cooks for you that was really a good idea of you and also a person who know what cooking is watching the delicious potatoes and fish !


    • Toni

      Hi Shiro. Toni has been cooking a variety of three course meals for me every day for three months. I have a lot of respect for her, for on top of the cooking she does 2 hours cleaning the apartment for me on Sundays, holds down an almost full time job in a butcher’s shop, has an unemployed husband, two young children and a menagerie of animals. What a woman !! I am so lucky to have her living in the apartment below and to be working for me. Take care. Ralph xox


      • Yes you are very lucky to have a person like her and I think TonI is a very special lady, all compliments to her, I wish you a very pleasant evening e buona notte Ralph !


      • I hope you are having a lovely evening as well Shiro. I will pass your compliment on to Toni πŸ˜€


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