A woman to share my life with !!
I visited Al’s blog last night who is having problems with dating agencies. I don’t do dating agencies. We have both decided to ask our blogging friends if there are any women amongst us who are looking for a serious relationship with either of us.
So I’ll put my cards on the table and will give you a link to my friend’s blog at the end of this post
Lives where: I own top floor large apartment in a mountain village near a river in southern Spain which has marvellous views.
What to say ? My life story ? Just quickly. All my closest family, mother, father, sister are dead. I have been married twice. The first, for 14 years. I have two daughters who I am not in touch with ….. it’s complicated, but not an issue. Divorced. Married again for one year, both of us married on the rebound, that didn’t work. I have been single for 24+ years living with a female companion who died of cancer 2 years ago. The release of caring for her made my hands vibrate, so I can’t do anything much with them. I am being treated for the problem and hopefully get cured.
I am okay financially, two pensions and savings. I have 3Mb wifi which we both can use. Also English Sky TV, Internet TV and Spanish TV. I don’t watch much, Formula One, Sci-fi and the news occasionally.
I am house trained ie. sweep, wash dishes etc.
I have two 10 year old cats who have been with me all their lives. Also many local friends who are very supportive and I think, deep down, they would like to see me in a relationship and in love. I don’t drive as the soles of my feet are very sensitive. I gave my car away. I smoke, never indoors (well, a man must have at least one vice). I love blogging, am taking up photography and video.
Maybe it’s an idea if you watch the three videos RV 1,2 &3 of me in previous posts.
Any nationality considered. Age ? I don’t know. 20+ ? You would have to be willing to live in Spain. I would prefer you not being too rowdy, messy, overpowering and argumentative. Easy going would be nice, who can gel with my local friends of many nationalities (which means, as a couple, there will be more party invitations :D ). I am not looking for a cook, caregiver or slave. If you like doing those things, great, but really just someone to share my life with. A driver would be nice. which means buying a car to go out and about, as there is a lot to do and see.
You would have to consider what you have now, as it would be a big step for you to take.
If you like country life, a new start, me (which helps) contact me. I won’t bite (nibble maybe ;) )
I am willing to compromise ie. if you want to change me or things around at home, share everything. Whatever !!
Can you “Knock my socks off !!” I bet you can !! <3
To my blogging friends
Most of you are married or have partners. Although I love you all, please don’t uproot and come-a-running. I would love you to put your thinking caps on, as maybe you have a friend,
a desperate friend, or a mad enough big sister who is alone and may be willing to take a big step with me. It’s a big step FOR me as well. Perhaps you are a single female blogger looking for love. If by some miracle I do pair up with you, my dream gal, then I would of course have to tone down my blog (no more flirting behind the bike sheds of Bluefish Way). All say, “Oh no !!” :shock:
I live in the railway station village close by
So, Princess, are you going to contact me ?? <3
I need a cuddle !!
Ralph xox <3
If I’m not the one for you, please give Al a visit